A Little Introduction to Me

Hi everyone, my name is Spyder (well, not really), and i am really really fed up with the whole "dating game".
First off here's a little background - im 22, living in Manhattan (NYC), a college grad from a really great school, an avid gamer, originally from Russia and i am definitely not ugly. I have a good job, amazing friends and an awesome family life. Yet for the longest time i have been having an absurd amount of trouble meeting girls.

Why? Don't you meet then through friends?
My friends are mostly gamer dudes that don't meet that many girls in general, so they are mostly on the same boat as me or do not want to share.

Don't you meet them through work?
I am one of the youngest people at my job.

What about going out to bars and clubs?
Don't get me started, ill get to that later

Come on, you live in New York City, isn't that supposed to be the area with The highest number of single women to single men?
Well, out of all of that, take nice pretty smart non psycho girls that live a reasonable distance away from me, as well as in my preferred age range, i am POSITIVE those numbers will change. In short, statistics lie.

Why are you so emo?
I'm not, an emo kid would just go and cry about it, i have a solution.



And the solution is simple, im going to try online dating.

"Thats not new or radical", you might say, and you'd be right. Online dating has become a huge and ever expanding business, with new sites and success stories popping up left and right. It's now pretty acceptable to use such services to meet people. However, im a 22 year old guy, and would like to date girls that are 18-24, which is usually not the type of girls that you would expect to find on such sites. A lot of times, for females at least, it becomes acceptable to try online dating in their late twenties and early thirties, but who has ever heard of a 21 year old super hottie looking for dates online? Thats right noone. I however hope to prove that wrong.

So in the next couple of days my plan is to join one of these sites, post up some pictures or whatever else those profiles need and wait and see what happens. This blog will be dedicated to my adventures with online dating and dating in general, i look forward to sharing my stories, past and present, with everyone.